Is he going to stay?

Text: Juhi Dua

Smitten by a guy but don't know if he is as serious about you or will move on as soon as he finds another woman to chase? This is a dilemma that faces all of us at least once in our lives. But, there is a way out of course. Read his behaviour to find out his stand. Here are some surefire signs that indicate he is here for the long haul:

1. He is comfortable with you
When a guy isn't looking at a long term relationship, he will usually project what he's not, not just mentally and emotionally, but also financially. On the other hand, if he wants you for keeps, play acting will stop at some point and the real him will gradually take over. This means, he may not be in the best of clothes and the best of moods all the time, he may not always agree with you and may not do things to please you all the time. Respect this as this just goes to show that he is comfortable with you and wants you forever.

2. He supports and encourages you
If you were a stop gap arrangement, your achievements and struggles would not mean much to him. But, if he supports and encourages you in every important task you undertake, he is clearly getting involved in your life. And this does send a strong signal.

3. He shares his darkest fears with you
Guys hate to be perceived as weak. They will gladly share their achievements or even dreams with you, but never their fears. But, if your guy confesses in you things that may be troubling him or talks about his fears, he has for sure crossed the boundaries of a fickle relationship.

4. He has introduced you to his family
As cliché as this may sound, this is an important step up in a relationship, simply because a guy will not introduce every girl to his parents, but only the one he sees the possibility of a future with. If he has introduced you to his parents as his girl, there is much reason to believe he is serious about you.

5. His future plans feature you
While talking about his future, if your guy mentions you even indirectly, it is a clear indication that he is not going anywhere.

When you know your place in the heart and life of the one you love, the euphoria gets heightened. So, find out for yourself if your man is here for the long haul and enjoy the connection. All the best! 

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